Sense of it all

Sitting at the bar at La Esquina, sipping on cocktails on Valentine's night...

I ask my friend, "Do you think that sensuality is inate? Do you think that we are all very sensual beings and there are some or many that do not tap into it? Or, is it that some have it and some don't?"

She says, "I don't know."
"I don't know, either."

and so we ordered another round and moved farther away from a brilliant conclusion